A paramedic learned to deal with sexual assaults by a former Rawlins police captain when she was a teenager by going to a place where it didn't hurt so much.
Stephanie Faber went to Iraq.
"She's in Iraq and she's taking care of people who are seriously injured and it helps her deal with her own pain," her attorney Fred Harrison said Wednesday.
Faber, a contract worker for Kellogg and Root, has cared for wounded soldiers and has been under attack, he said.
"Iraq, amazingly enough, has given her a breather," Harrison said.
Faber, now 27, settled a federal civil rights lawsuit with the city of Rawlins and Adam "Lee" Meacham for $250,000. They city will also acknowledge the assaults occurred and will take steps to prevent other occurrences in the future, he said.
"She's doing very well considering what happened to her," Harrison said. "She's very committed in not wanting this to happen to anyone else."
The first assault occurred in 1996 when she was 15 and in Meacham's patrol car during a "ride-along" program set up by the Rawlins Police Department. Meacham assaulted her two other times at his home before she turned 18, according to court documents.
Faber coped with the assaults by closing her mind in what psychiatrists call "dissociative amnesia," which can be a component of post-traumatic stress disorder, Harrison said.
"That's how children cope with abuse," he said. "They disassociate that memory in order to survive."
Dissociative amnesia is different from repressed memories, which can be very difficult to prove at trial, Harrison said.
While on an ambulance call in Florida to care for a 4-year-old girl who had been raped, Faber's memories came back with a vengeance, leading to a suicide attempt. Her parents called an attorney who notified the Carbon County attorney.
Harrison sharply criticized Wyoming's justice system for failing to prosecute Meacham on criminal charges despite a recommendation to do so from an investigator in 2004.
So Faber sued in April 2007.
The case, which was against Meacham and the city of Rawlins, was scheduled for trial on July 7 before U.S. District Judge Alan Johnson in Cheyenne.
The case was vacated when settlement talks began in June, according to court documents.
Meacham did not return a phone call seeking comment on Wednesday, nor did Richard Rideout who represented Rawlins.
Meacham adamantly denied any sexual contact happened, according to the pretrial memorandum. He noted Faber did not file the claims about the alleged incidents with the Wyoming Division of Criminal Investigation until five years after she turned 18. Faber also saw him since the alleged incidents, according to the memorandum.
In Rawlins' final pretrial memorandum, the city agreed with Meacham, adding it responsibly oversaw the ride-along program and police department actions.
The city also claimed the relationship between Meacham and Faber was consensual.
But Faber, through Harrison and attorney John Robinson of Casper, responded that the city knew about Meacham's behavior "as a liar, a womanizer, and a terrible leader." Meacham also had parties at his home with minor girls, alcohol and other officers.
During the course of litigation, reports of two other alleged rapes by Meacham surfaced, and Harrison noted that any so-called consent by Faber was while Meacham was in uniform and armed, according to court documents.
The settlement -- paid for by the city's and Wyoming's insurance pools -- showed Faber's allegations were true and that Rawlins could have prevented the assaults, Harrison said.
Criminal prosecution of Meacham is still possible, and the state could decertify him as a peace officer, he added.
Meacham, who is in his early 40s, took medical retirement in late 2006.
Faber will be returning to Florida from Iraq, and will have to resume therapy for what happened in Rawlins, Harrison said.
The money will cover her expenses for care and future needs, but it wasn't the object of the lawsuit, Harrison said.
"Stephanie has proven that not even the second in command of the Rawlins Police Department and a Carbon County Commissioner and the son of prominent parents in the community is above the law," he said. "The rule of law applies to everyone."
Reach Tom Morton at (307) 266-0616, or at Tom.Morton@trib.com.
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Hang Him wrote on Jul 24, 2008 11:20 AM:
Unbelieveable wrote on Jul 24, 2008 1:58 PM:
Sweetwater wrote on Jul 24, 2008 2:42 PM:
WHATEVERRRRRRRR wrote on Jul 24, 2008 3:51 PM:
Atlantic Rim wrote on Jul 24, 2008 4:35 PM:
Frustrated wrote on Jul 24, 2008 4:46 PM:
ChangedMind wrote on Jul 24, 2008 7:29 PM:
Protest anyone wrote on Jul 24, 2008 8:12 PM:
Perhaps this will encourage other young girls who've been raped by this "man" to step up and tell someone. There's power in numbers.
If this guy is still living in Rawlins, he better register as a sex offender...that's the LAW, right?
Keep us posted on folllow up from this. Surely somebody will care enough to make him pay instead of having us tax payers pay for his worthless life for the next 40 years. "
poky wrote on Jul 24, 2008 8:16 PM:
Interesting. Stupid, but it makes for an unbelievable story. "
Wonder wrote on Jul 24, 2008 8:34 PM:
Coincidental wrote on Jul 24, 2008 9:01 PM:
Confused wrote on Jul 24, 2008 10:24 PM:
Disgusted wrote on Jul 25, 2008 2:03 AM:
Beyond the Law wrote on Jul 25, 2008 1:59 PM:
Everett wrote on Jul 25, 2008 4:41 PM:
The Count Down Starts wrote on Jul 25, 2008 5:18 PM:
To Serve and Protect wrote on Jul 25, 2008 5:34 PM:
Medical Retirement wrote on Jul 25, 2008 5:52 PM:
To Catch a Predator wrote on Jul 25, 2008 10:18 PM:
RA wrote on Jul 26, 2008 8:50 AM:
wyoming wrote on Jul 26, 2008 10:46 AM:
OUTRAGED in California wrote on Jul 26, 2008 11:32 AM:
RAWLINS Stop adding insult to injury, clean it up and all who covered it up. How can Stephanie's parents, family, friends and other citizens in Rawlins feel anything but absolutely insulted by his continued freedom and use of their hard earned tax dollars? Take away the "pension" and the badge immediately. I do not want him showing up in my city or any other looking for a job! Put him where the sun don't shine!!! Pray for his sole as we pray healing for sweet Stephanie, her family and all the others who have suffered by his actions. "
Perv Ball wrote on Jul 26, 2008 5:38 PM:
Disgusted wrote on Jul 27, 2008 6:10 PM:
wyoming blows wrote on Jul 27, 2008 11:49 PM:
Perve and Protect wrote on Jul 28, 2008 1:18 PM:
mad wrote on Jul 28, 2008 1:50 PM:
Rawlins wrote on Jul 28, 2008 1:55 PM:
Obvious Case wrote on Jul 28, 2008 4:30 PM:
The State Pen is Mightier Than the Sword wrote on Jul 28, 2008 5:21 PM:
Close to case wrote on Jul 28, 2008 8:25 PM:
Thanks Mr. Harrison for a job well done. "
wyoming wrote on Jul 28, 2008 9:02 PM:
McDowell wrote on Jul 29, 2008 9:45 AM:
CPD wrote on Jul 29, 2008 10:10 AM:
Rogers wrote on Jul 29, 2008 10:27 AM:
Close to case wrote on Jul 29, 2008 1:12 PM:
Message in a Cuisinart wrote on Jul 29, 2008 3:12 PM:
'Yeah, so when are you going to arrest him?'
'Arrest him for what? Who says he did anything?' "
Rawlins citizen wrote on Jul 29, 2008 4:28 PM:
Hanna Citizen wrote on Jul 29, 2008 6:29 PM:
wyoming wrote on Jul 29, 2008 9:02 PM:
Close to case wrote on Jul 29, 2008 9:16 PM:
If you think about it, let’s say he was making $65,000 a year when he "retired" at 40 years old. Using the good dog/bad dog theory this "PIG" will live for another 40-50 years. Lets estimate the retirement at $45,000 a year, plus medical, dental, $15,000 a year. If he draws retirement for the next 45 years, the good people of Rawlins will pay him $2,700,000.00. YES $2.7 million! I guess rape in Rawlins really does pay, that make the ACLU look more like a Right Wing Religious organization in comparison. Sleep well Rawlins. That sound you hear is the financial drain with the plug pulled.... "
Rawlins citizen wrote on Jul 29, 2008 10:13 PM:
Just FYI here... the ACLU has a long history of defending many child molesters from all over the country, look it up yourself. EVERY city in America has child molesters living in them. Its a sick world we live in. The RPD didnt molest any girl. One man did. And FYI dont you think its ironic that this sexual relationship supposedly went on for many years and she never once told anyone? She never lived with him but supposedly was always over at his house sneaking around town in the middle of the night? This "girl" doesnt sound so innocent to me. Sounds like she was a party girl and once she turned 18 she realized she make lots of money from sleeping around. And as I recall the RPD hasnt paid one dime or made any type of written response of apology. Warrants? There isn't a warrant to be served and if there was one put out BY THE COUNTY, NOT THE RPD then it would be served. Police departments dont and cant issue out warrants, only judges can. Know your information before making ignorant statements in public. The RPD didnt drop any ball... There is always two sides to every story. Bottom line, a young unsupervised teenager who was sleeping around with a grown man who happened to be a police officer got caught and covered her tail by saying she was "molested" for years and years by someone who didnt even live with her or who wasnt even a relative (someone with no access unless she went to him...) and now she created a sob story to the press and got a quarter of a million dollars. I personally think she played the system well. She got everything she wanted. And no I'm not a child molester and I dont care for your false, slandering, illegal accusations either. "
Maverick wrote on Jul 30, 2008 1:31 PM:
The Better Rawlins Citizen wrote on Jul 30, 2008 3:39 PM:
Careful reading wrote on Jul 30, 2008 7:50 PM:
Family Friend wrote on Jul 30, 2008 9:14 PM:
For the person who called Ms Faber a party girl you obviously do not know the family or the young woman involved. They were strong in thier church, 4.0 student . strong athlete active in plays and all activities at her school.
IYou shoul not make comment from gossip you hear but only based on facts . Unless you were at one of the many parties Mr. Meacham had where young girls and young men were allowed to attend. If you were there why didnt you do somethng if you knew it was going and and you knew it was wrong .. dont judge if you dont know the truth and only the ugley gossip.
Enough said. "
some guy wrote on Jul 31, 2008 12:42 AM:
Rawlins Citizen wrote on Jul 31, 2008 9:07 AM:
" Rawlins, first you said RPD didn't molest the girl - 'one mad did.' Then you said she wasn't molested at all, that it was her fault for being a 'party girl.' So you have not only contradicted yourself, you don't make any sense to begin with. '
FYI there maverick... when in my paragraph did I say it was her fault for being a party girl and she was never molested at all... those words never came from me. All I stated was she didn't sound so innocent to me, and FYI and everyone else in here... a 16 year old is not a "child" and show me one 16 year old these days who isn't sexually active. And no I'm not all defending meacham at all, nor am I apologizing for him. I don't know who the guy is. Everyone is so quick to say hang him and give her all the money she wants.... when there is ALWAYS two sides to the story. She isn't innocent, and neither is he. I don't make any sense at all? Try actually reading what I write instead of reading between the lines and getting all upset. I don't know you and you don't know me, and for you to shoot your mouth off about me t tells me alot about yourself. "
Close to Case wrote on Jul 31, 2008 12:36 PM:
As long as we are stating facts, the fact is this is not the first time he has been accused of rape, and most likely not the last. The other sad truth is the very people that he worked for were protecting him from these charges and used the same despicable tactics used in this forum to discount the victim and protect him. Protect and serve?? Doctors take a pledge to "Do not harm"! Too bad the same cannot be said for the police it seems they have taken the pledge to do no investigation against one of their own. RPD is filled with the "good ol boy" syndrome and this is just a look through the peep hole into the backwards world. You know the world, if someone accuses one of your own, you should shoot the messenger. If one of your own goes off track, to protect your own ass, you should hide facts, shred records, and lie, lie, lie. Those that have done all of these things will have to answer to a higher power. It seems that higher power will not come from our legal system, but I am convinced they will be held accountable and I would not want to be in their shoes when that happens.
This is the last posting from "Close to Case" and I will leave it in the hands of the good people of Rawlins. You deserve better than this from your elected officials and those hired to protect you. What has been going on within your police department for years is not right and for sure not normal. Somehow along the way they have really gotten off track and in some small way this case might nudge the process a little closer to normal. It is a slow road and a hard row to hoe, but hang in there. In the end, the truth will come out and those that did not take action when they could have will be held accountable.
God Speed Rawlins!! "
Rawlins Citizen wrote on Jul 31, 2008 1:09 PM:
Frustrated wrote on Jul 31, 2008 8:42 PM:
Hopefully this media spotlight brings change to the system - and won't let it happen. "
Former RPD Officer wrote on Aug 1, 2008 12:08 AM:
Many of you have made some good and bad points. As far as the good points goes, yes meacham should be tried criminally and serve prison time for sex with a minor. What he did was 100% wrong and illegal and he has given the RPD a black eye. As far as the RPD goes, it is one of the most professional, well quipped law enforcement agencies in the state. Unfortunately every company, family, and even police department has one bad apple in the bunch. This is the world we live in folks. Some comments like close to case make:
"....Too bad the same cannot be said for the police it seems they have taken the pledge to do no investigation against one of their own. RPD is filled with the "good ol boy" syndrome and this is just a look through the peep hole into the backwards world. You know the world, if someone accuses one of your own, you should shoot the messenger. If one of your own goes off track, to protect your own ass, you should hide facts, shred records, and lie, lie, lie. Those that have done all of these things will have to answer to a higher power...."
Sir, you are incredibly ignorant to tie my former PD into a statement like that. I could say more but I'll be the professional. Here is a fact for you mr. "close to case" when a PD Officer gets into ANY kind of trouble from anything like speeding in his or her own personal vehicle complaint to something more serious like in mr. meachams case, sexual assault on a minor, AN OUTSIDE AGENCY HAS TO COME IN TO CONDUCT THE INVESTIGATION. We cannot do an investigation one one of our own. PERIOD So if you want to point fingers try DCI or the Carbon County SO. They are the ones supposed to be conducting a criminal investigation, not the RPD. Why these agencies haven't done anything is still mystery to me. Personally I don't like meacham, never have or will. My true opinion of the man I'm not allowed to write it out here. So many of you in here that say hang him for his actions I couldn't agree more with all of you. As far as Stephanie Faber goes.... she is a victim, yes. Does she deserve money from the City and State, yes. Is she 100% innocent, no. And based off of my experience and first hand knowledge I will leave it at that.
Well I hope that helps some people out in here with this whole mess, hope everyone has a good night. "
Family friend wrote on Aug 4, 2008 1:03 PM:
and I will leave it at that.. "
Medical Retirement wrote on Aug 4, 2008 9:36 PM:
Lionel wrote on Aug 5, 2008 10:41 PM:
Present RPD Officer wrote on Aug 7, 2008 5:01 PM:
lifelong resident wrote on Aug 16, 2008 12:32 AM:
Cagney wrote on Aug 30, 2008 9:47 PM:
Mrs Flint wrote on Sep 5, 2008 3:38 PM:
Revaew wrote on Sep 20, 2008 11:46 AM:
Revaew wrote on Oct 18, 2008 12:17 PM:
CLARK wrote on Nov 22, 2008 2:36 PM:
READ ROMANS CHAPTER 2: 1-4 & JUST MAYBE SOME OF YOU WILL FIGURE IT OUT.
I AM AN ADULT MALE WHO GREW UP IN RAWLINS. I LIVED THROUGH REPEATED MOLESTATIONS AS A CHILD IN RAWLINS. YOU DONT FORGET IT & REMEMBER IT AT A LATER DATE. IT STICKS IN YOUR HEAD FOR LIFE. THOSE WHO CLAIM THEY DONT REMEMBER & THEM LATER REMEMBERED ARE NOT PLAYING WITH A FULL DECK.
I AM A WHITNESS TO OFFICIALS IN THE RAWLINS AREA FAILING TO PROCECUTE OFFENDERS. THE ADULT WHO MOLESTED ME IS STILL WALKING THE STREETS OF RAWLINS. EVEN AFTER ADMITTING TO LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICIALS WHAT WAS DONE. BESAUSE THE INDIVIDUAL WAS A CITY OF RAWLINS COUNCIL MEMBER AT THE TIME THE CRIME WAS REPORTED, THEY DID NOT PROCECUTE THE INDIVIDUAL.
I HAVE LET IT GO & FORGIVEN THE INDIVIDUAL WHO MOLESTED ME WHEN I WAS 13 YEARS OLD. ITS IN GOD'S HANDS NOW.
THE BIBLE TEACHES THAT WE ARE TO FORGIVE THOSE WHO SIN AGAINST US. WHEN YOU DO THIS IT PUTS IT IN GOD'S HANDS & GOD'S COURTS. JESUS DOESNT MAKE MISTAKES. HE DOESNT SHOW PARTIALITY TO ANYONE. BUT HE DOES FORGIVE THOSE WHO CONFESS THIER SINS & ASK FOR GOD TO FORGIVE THEM IN THE NAME OF JESUS.
GOD GETS THE FINAL SAY IN EVERYTHING. IN THE LONG RUN IT DOESNT MATTER IF YOU OR I LIKE IT OR NOT. GOD DOESNT ASK FOR OUR OPINION BEFORE HE MAKES DECISIONS.
ALL SIN THAT IS UNDER THE BLOOD OF JESUS IS HISTORY. AS FAR AS THE EAST IS FROM THE WEST. & IF YOU TRY TO TAKE UP GOD'S AUTHORITY & ACT LIKE ITS YOUR PLACE TO JUDGE GOD'S PEOPLE IT MAY BE YOU WHO ENDS UP IN TROUBLE INSTEAD OF THE ONE YOU THINK SHOULD BE IN TROUBLE.
HE THAT HATH AN EAR GO FIGURE. "
Close to Case wrote on Dec 9, 2008 8:03 PM:
This is not the first time this cop has done this and without charging him in the courts he WILL do this again! Not only is he hired to protect and serve, but he should be a role model for young people to follow.
I hope and pray for you, and do not want to see harm come to this cop, but he NEEDS TO BE CHARGED!! It is amazing to me that the people of Rawlins allow this to continue on... "
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